A couple came into my office for an introductory session. Their story was not new or unusual. They have a 19 month old baby girl, and ever since the baby was born the dynamics in their relationship changed.
I was dismayed to read an article in the Huffington Post today titled “Marriage counseling Made my Marriage Worse” . The writer, an anonymous woman with the pen-name of ‘Deja-vow’ wrote about her less than positive experience in marriage counseling.
You cannot be in relationship with someone else if you are not in correct relationship with yourself. Without emotional clarity, there is no bridge to cross, and you will find yourself feeling lonely even if you spend all day with your partner. The solution is knowing and accepting yourself first, with all of your warts and of course the beauty too.
That’s what I’m here for. I help both individuals and couples heal their relationships in individual and marital/couples counseling. Rediscovering the spark and mutual affection in a relationship can only happen when the space to fully express yourself feels like a safe and open one. I provide a couples counseling environment in which both partners … Read more